When you pull me over to your side of the bed in the morning.
- Because we are still waking up, and
there is no better way to do that than in a handsome guys arms.
When you tell me you think I’m beautiful.
Beautiful holds so much more weight than pretty or gorgeous, especially when a guy drops it unexpectedly when you are both just chilling out in your lounge wear.
When you compliment me on something non-physical.
I love it when you tell me how funny, kind, intelligent, or deep I am because it re-assures me that you are not just with me for my body. (But don’t stop telling me I’m beautiful either.)
When you are kind to total strangers.
When you get up for the elderly and pregnant ladies on the subway, or you stop to chat to a stranger on the street and pet his dog; my heart does a major backflip in my chest.
When you touch my knee under the table.
It doesn’t need to be anything more than your leg gently brushing mine, but it definitely heats things up a whole lot and gets me thinking.
When you remembered what I told you three weeks ago.
I’m always wondering if you are really listening to me. So when you do something thoughtful like treating me to lunch at that restaurant I told you I loved, or you secretly read my favorite book and then share your thoughts on it, I’m blown away.
When you make me laugh.
Who doesn’t love laughing? Make my sides hurt with laughter and you’ll instantly be more attractive than you were five minutes ago. Bonus points if you are able to laugh at yourself, too.
When you whisper in my ear.
It doesn’t matter so much what you are saying to me, but having your face so close against mine and feeling your warm breath against my ear just kind of does it for me.
When you give me a massage after a long, stressful day.
Even if you just massage my neck or my feet, I won’t be able to stop thinking about you touching me in other places.
When you gently touch my hair.
When you tuck a strand of my purple hair back behind my ear it is such an innocent act but gets me falling hard for you every time.
When you surprise me.
Something as small as showing up with my favorite candy bar, or picking a flower on your way over to my place and giving it to me, or something as extravagant as a romantic weekend away it doesn’t really matter what the surprise is, because it all shows that you are thinking about me.
When we wake up and you are already making coffee.
You can stay over ALL the time if this is what mornings look like with you.
When you are a total gentleman.
Most girls still like a bit of chivalry and to be treated like ladies. Open the door for us, hold our hand when were crossing the road, or pull the chair out for us at dinner and well be putty in your hands.
When you are quietly confident.
Women love confidence, but not the showing off kind. When you are standing tall, but sitting back, and quietly taking your surroundings in that is sexy as hell.
When you pulls my legs onto your lap when we are watching TV.
My feet feel like they’ve been transported to a spa, and your hands caressing my legs feels amazing.
When you touch me lightly.
Nothing is more of a turn off than a guy who doesn’t rush things girls LOVE the build up. Touch us lightly, softly, and subtly all over our arms, legs, neck, and face and well go from zero to ten in no time.
When you text me cute random messages.
It could be something as small as, hope you are having a great day, or I can’t wait to see you tonight. It doesn’t really matter what you say, it is the simple act of letting me know you are thinking of me that gets me going.
When you cook us a candle-lit dinner.
Girls love food, even those of us who order salads when were on a date with you. Even if you can’t cook and the meal ends up being terrible, well still think you are awesome for going to all that effort. And well want to say thank you.
When you don’t just kiss my lips.
That sweet spot behind my ears, the back of my neck, and my forehead are all sensitive areas for us ladies and huge turn ons. It mixes the usual make-out session up, and adds to the anticipation of your lips finally meeting mine.
When you carry my suitcase and yours.
It is not that I’m incapable of carrying my own bag, it is just lovely when someone unexpectedly takes the weight off and makes my life a little easier. The image of a man quietly showing me his strength is super sexy.
When you lift me up literally.
Maybe its because Ive seen Dirty Dancing one too many times, but I’m a sucker for being lifted up, or spun around. The feeling of our bodies fitting next to each other feels sensual and spontaneous, and you’ll win my heart every time.
When you are patient.
When you are happy to wait however long it takes, whether it comes to getting physical or getting ready in the mornings, the happier I’ll be with you. You won’t believe the number of times other guys will have tried to rush me, so when you give me the time I need its refreshingly sweet and so noticed.
When you smells incredible.
Yes, I want my man to look good, but the right smell can light up my senses, and magnetically draw me closer and closer to you.
When you wear a tux or tailored suit.
There is nothing more attractive than a guy who is suited and booted and looking like a straight up ten outta ten. As long as you are wearing it with confidence, you’ll instantly look hotter and more powerful in my eyes.
When you come up behind me and hug me.
When I’m doing the dishes, putting my makeup on, or cooking dinner, and you put your arm around my waist from behind, and maybe also kisses my neck This is GOLD.